fabulous/not-so-fabulous….michelle and ben || black rock country club

Sorry for the delay between entries – just one more after this one!

Here’s Michelle’s entry – from original artwork to almost having a “Benny Hill” moment….they had a fantastic day!

“Aside from the actual wedding itself, cocktail hour packed by far the most fabulous moments that, up until that point, we only could have dreamed of.

Our wedding day was absolutely spectacular, we truly could not have been more fortunate. Having chosen a day in mid September, we crossed our fingers hoped for the best. As it turned out, we could not have asked for a better day.

Blanketed by warmth of the afternoon sun, our guests enjoyed drinks, appetizers, and live music on the balcony while Nancy orchestrated the bridal party pictures on the golf course below. It was the perfect setting for us, and our guests. They had the chance to watch, as Nancy did her thing, and we were close enough to them, to feel like part of the party, music and all.

As cocktail hour came to an end, and our guests were ushered into the ballroom, they came to discover Alexander, the impressionist artist we hired to paint our first dance. I found Alex a couple months prior the wedding while I was pouring though the archives of Nancy’s blog (still one of my favorite pastimes), and had to have him. Ben and I had decided to keep Alex a secret from everybody, including my sister and our parents. It was fun to watch our guests stand and marvel while Alex’s canvas came to life as the evening wore on. It’s incredible to have an actual piece of art that captures our own wedding day, it’s the perfect keepsake.”

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“Far and away, the most fabulous part of cocktail hour happened as day began turning to night. The sun had shone all day, and just as it began to dip behind the tree line of the 18th fairway, the sky turned an unforgettable and breathtaking shade of pinkish lavender. Words cannot explain how lucky we were, to have been standing in that particular spot, at that particular moment in time, with each other.”

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“Now, for the “Not so fabulous” Immediately upon arriving at the golf course, Ben and I hopped in a golf cart and drove off with Nancy and our wedding coordinator Kimberly, who was fabulous herself, to the 14th green to take some quick pictures. It was great to have a couple moments alone together in the quiet serenity of the early evening, interrupted only by the sound of Nancy’s camera. Fabulous, right up until the cart ride back to the clubhouse. Ladies, if I can impart one word of advice on you, it would be for you to remember to keep all parts of your gown securely in the cart. Now, Kimberly had just reminded me, to hold on to my train during the ride back, and I was doing great, right up until some people waved at us as were driving by. Well, I had to wave back, and I completely forgot about my train, and halfway between our private shoot, and cocktail hour, our golf cart came screeching to a stop. The train had gotten caught up in the wheel well, and ripped all along the seam. The damage was disappointing, but manageable. Realizing that there was nothing I could really do, and that it wasn’t THAT bad, we laughed it off and chased away the pain with the remaining wine in our glasses. As it turned out, after my sister bustled the dress, you could hardly tell. The best part was when I brought the dress to the dry cleaner after the honeymoon. I looked at the inside of the train, and sure enough, there was a tire mark its entire length. All I could do was laugh! I am so lucky it was not on the outside of the train! Could you even imagine???!!!

So that’s our Fabulous, Not So Fabulous stories for Saturday September 19, 2009. A day we waited so long for, and never wanted to end. We wouldn’t trade it for the world. THANKS NANCY!!”

You are very welcome!!! Certainly there will be minor glitches in almost every wedding day, but if you have a great attitude, nothing can ruin your day!

61 Comments

  1. Pamela said . . .

    What a fun way to write up the day! The dress being run over by the golf cart was classic and Michelle handled it with grace!

    Posted March 23, 2010 at 12:24 pm | Permalink
  2. Carolyn "Mother of the Bride" said . . .

    Michelle & Ben’s wedding day was absolutely fabulous!! It was a perfect day. There are so many wonderful memories in our hearts and captured perfectly in all the amazing photo’s. Thank you Nancy.

    When we are with family and friends there is always talk about how special the ceremony was and how everything about the reception was fantastic and how much fun everyone had. Great planning Michelle & Ben!!

    A not-so-fabulous moment I remember was when Michelle was getting ready to put her gown on she realized that she had to pull her shirt off over her head. Not I good thing to do just having her hair and make-up done… No fear, she just pull the shirt down over her body (laughing) and proceeded to put her wedding gown on with her smile just getting bigger and bigger!!!

    We had such a wonderful day. Thanks Michelle & Ben, love you

    Posted March 23, 2010 at 12:24 pm | Permalink
  3. ben said . . .

    thanks for everything nancy… cant wait to see the album!!!!

    Posted March 25, 2010 at 5:58 pm | Permalink
  4. kristy smith said . . .

    They were AMAZING pictures! My vote is for you!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 6:05 am | Permalink
  5. Rachel said . . .

    It was a fantastic day, with the pictures to prove it. Congrats Michelle & Ben!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 7:16 am | Permalink
  6. Valerie Quigley said . . .

    The original painting of your first dance really was fabulous Ben and Michelle! But my favorite is still that fabulous picture of you with all that gorgeous sun glow behind you – a framer for sure and certainly the picture of the New Mr. & Mrs. that you dreamed of!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 7:22 am | Permalink
  7. Denise said . . .

    Beautiful couple – great wedding! Love you both!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 7:50 am | Permalink
  8. Lexi said . . .

    I voted!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 8:39 am | Permalink
  9. Kevin said . . .

    Ben to Michelle no fabulous/not so fabulous hanashi wa subarashii hanashi desu. Kekkon shiki no shashin wa utsukushi desu. Omedetou gozaimasu!

    Tokyo, March 26, 2010.

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 9:15 am | Permalink
  10. Lauren said . . .

    Congrats again!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 10:19 am | Permalink
  11. Mary Merrill said . . .

    Michelle no idea about the train…you looked incredible. Fabulous photos

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 11:45 am | Permalink
  12. Lily said . . .

    I voted!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 12:51 pm | Permalink
  13. Michelle D. said . . .

    What a great entry Michelle! Your wedding day was so beautiful and the pictures show it all off.

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 1:10 pm | Permalink
  14. Laura Kelly said . . .

    I had no idea that golf cart thing even happened! You guys looked great, and now you have these great photos to help you remember it all. They’re beautiful. Congrats to you both…looking forward to seeing you again in September!

    Posted March 26, 2010 at 11:25 pm | Permalink
  15. Wendy said . . .

    Picture perfect! What a fabulous day, congrats again to you both.

    Posted March 27, 2010 at 12:50 pm | Permalink
  16. Amanda said . . .

    I love your wedding pictures.

    Posted March 27, 2010 at 7:12 pm | Permalink
  17. Alice said . . .

    Michelle and Ben, What a picture perfect day for your wedding. We all had a fabulous time and your wedding pictures capture the day beautifully. What a good looking couple!

    Posted March 28, 2010 at 10:34 pm | Permalink
  18. Shannon said . . .

    You couldn’t have had a better day!! The sunset picture is perfect!!

    Posted March 29, 2010 at 10:12 am | Permalink
  19. Nanci said . . .

    Fabulous!!

    Posted March 29, 2010 at 11:01 am | Permalink
  20. Audrey T said . . .

    How can any couple top Ben and Michelles wedding day. Their love for each other shone through everything. From the fabulous weather to the fabulous pictures to remember it by. Nancy is a gifted photoghrapher,and captured every precious moment. We are blessed to have Michelle join our family!

    Posted March 29, 2010 at 7:08 pm | Permalink
  21. Meredith said . . .

    Such a beautiful wedding!

    Posted March 29, 2010 at 8:16 pm | Permalink
  22. Karen H said . . .

    I too had no idea your train had been damaged. What a very lovely wedding it was. Nancy’s photos are fabulous. Enjoy them forever.

    Posted March 30, 2010 at 9:52 am | Permalink
  23. bob said . . .

    congratulations to you both! everything was fantastic

    Posted April 1, 2010 at 3:32 pm | Permalink
  24. Bill said . . .

    That was a great day! Certainly my favorite of the year! I don’t think Michelle (or even Ben for that matter) will ever wear a dress with a long train again while operating a golf cart! haha.

    Posted April 5, 2010 at 11:44 am | Permalink
  25. Kathleen said . . .

    The whole day, from start to finish was a gorgeous affair. Every little detail added to the elegance of the day, as the pictures show. Who would have known there was an almost wedding dress catastrophe! I had a wonderful time at the wedding. Congrats to the both of you.

    Posted April 5, 2010 at 9:55 pm | Permalink
  26. Heather Tuccolo said . . .

    I’m a bit disappointed this is the first I am hearing of the golf cart episode, but regardless your pictures are absolutely amazing. If only there was one of the tire track….

    Posted April 6, 2010 at 6:09 am | Permalink
  27. april said . . .

    Fabulous wedding and picture!!

    Posted April 6, 2010 at 9:22 pm | Permalink
  28. bill c said . . .

    good luck!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:22 am | Permalink
  29. cj said . . .

    WHAT A GREAT WEDDING!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:42 am | Permalink
  30. Kendall Smith said . . .

    Ben & Michelle’s wedding was fabulous and your pictures were great.

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:47 am | Permalink
  31. Rick Tayor said . . .

    Nancy,
    Your perfect photographs perfectly captured a perfect couple on a perfect day.

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:51 am | Permalink
  32. Michael Evans said . . .

    Ben & Michelle, the pictures look awesome. What a great looking couple. Enjoy your lives together!!! Mike

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:52 am | Permalink
  33. Ann Driscoll said . . .

    I never knew the story about the train getting stuck in the golfcart! That is so funny!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:58 am | Permalink
  34. Nikki said . . .

    Congrats guys — beautiful pictures!!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 10:04 am | Permalink
  35. Alie said . . .

    Pictures look great, love the train story!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 10:25 am | Permalink
  36. Shawn said . . .

    They look really cool like they are in a wind swept plain
    I hope the bride was able to save her dress

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 11:04 am | Permalink
  37. Rick Gauntlett said . . .

    Beautiful pictures of a beautiful couple on an absolutely beautiful day! Beautiful!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 11:39 am | Permalink
  38. John said . . .

    Pics look great!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 12:37 pm | Permalink
  39. Squish said . . .

    Yey Taylors!!!!!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 1:40 pm | Permalink
  40. Anne said . . .

    Beautiful wedding, couple and pictures! We had a fantastic time!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 3:09 pm | Permalink
  41. Andrew said . . .

    Looking good as always guys, ab

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 3:20 pm | Permalink
  42. Michelle G said . . .

    Congrats!!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 3:33 pm | Permalink
  43. Justine said . . .

    Congratulations to both of you….looks like the entire wedding was fabulous from these great pictures!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 4:22 pm | Permalink
  44. Tip T said . . .

    Ben shouldnt be driving a golf cart to begin with!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:00 pm | Permalink
  45. Eammon said . . .

    good luck

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:02 pm | Permalink
  46. Mike said . . .

    nicey nice

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:07 pm | Permalink
  47. Brian said . . .

    you guys are the best

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:17 pm | Permalink
  48. Katie said . . .

    Love the train story!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:46 pm | Permalink
  49. Mike said . . .

    Perfect wedding!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:48 pm | Permalink
  50. Jennifer said . . .

    Ben and Michelle had a perfect day! Everything was fabulous and the boys loved being ringbears!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:49 pm | Permalink
  51. Kelsy said . . .

    Fabulous!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:56 pm | Permalink
  52. Patrick Atkins said . . .

    Michelle and Ben look great! Its a shame that I couldn’t have been there to witness the wedding personally but these photos really capture the magic of the day.

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 5:57 pm | Permalink
  53. Laura said . . .

    Congratlations!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 6:01 pm | Permalink
  54. Susan said . . .

    Michelle & Ben – you had a beautiful wedding day. Many years of love and happiness!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 6:03 pm | Permalink
  55. Joan said . . .

    Love the pictures!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 6:06 pm | Permalink
  56. Patrick said . . .

    Congrats Michelle & Ben!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 6:12 pm | Permalink
  57. Kelly said . . .

    Such a fun wedding! Everything was fabulous!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 6:13 pm | Permalink
  58. John said . . .

    Great wedding!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 7:05 pm | Permalink
  59. Jake said . . .

    Thanks for the apps!! Great time!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 7:07 pm | Permalink
  60. Megan said . . .

    It was a beautiful day! So happy for you two!

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 7:09 pm | Permalink
  61. paul crimmins said . . .

    Crim proclaims: “Wedding of the year! I laughed, I cried….. I ate cake!”

    Posted April 7, 2010 at 9:47 pm | Permalink

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