fabulous/not-so fabulous – #7

Next entry is from Sarah – they had such a fun day last June up at the Gloucester Elks at Bass Rocks…….. (I love her comment about Pringles and M&M’s……what could be bad about those? I am also guilty of paying about $8 for 10 Pringles from a mini-bar and loving each and every one….)

“After months of planning and jittery nerves for weeks, when the doors opened to the church and I saw my soon to be husband everything fell into place. Standing up there and promising our lives to one another was thrilling, we kept just smiling and giggling at each other.

The dance lessons were the best investment we ever made! We took dance lessons on Saturdays for a few months before the wedding. We had so much fun spending time together before the wedding learning our dance—laughing, practicing and thinking about the big day. I never thought our guests would love the dance so much or that it would be one of the highlights of our reception. I’ll always remember the huge smile on my husbands face while showing off his moves on the dance floor.

The caterers forgot to give us our prepared food plates so when we arrived at hotel at 1AM we were starving. I ate here and there at the reception but the hunger hit us both when we took our shoes off to relax. We wanted a nice sampler of all the wonderful food our guests ate. Instead we ate the entire mini-bar at the hotel! I would have enjoyed the mini-crab cakes or sirloin but Pringles and M&M’s did the trick!

The early bird catches the worm and this applies on the absolute best day of your life. Start getting ready early for the wedding. Make any hair or make-up appointments earlier than you think. I never felt rushed and really enjoyed spending quality time with the bridesmaids before the wedding. Once the flowers arrive the day takes off and never slows down. If you get ready early you have more time for pictures, nobody is stressed and then the rest of the day runs smoothly. Nobody wants to feel rushed on their wedding day or not have time to take a few extra pictures with their husband because they are needed someplace else.

I didn’t know much about what I wanted for my wedding, but I knew I wanted a chocolate cake! Each tier of the periwinkle and brown confection featured a different flavor: chocolate raspberry, mint chocolate chip, chocolate chip, and (for nonchocoholics), yellow cake. I’m so glad I went with chocolate icing on my cake. I received so many compliments on how incredibly beautiful it was. If you don’t like white icing don’t put it on your wedding cake because the bridal magazines tell you it looks prettier. I walked by the news stand the other day and on the cover was a huge wedding cake, with chocolate icing—apparently chocolate icing is now “in” because it’s different. It’s always been my favorite!

I wish I had not spent so much money on my veil. I wore it for the ceremony, a few pictures and it was off. It was beautiful but kind of a pain and I wore it for maybe a total of 45 minutes. I could have done something cheaper. Perhaps I’ll open up a used veil shop!

For some reason I thought ALL DJ’s were cheesy or bad – mainly just because all the ones growing up were! We listened to all sorts of CD’s and DVD’s from popular bands. We went through all of their play-lists. We made lists of pros and cons of each band; it started to get real complicated. We didn’t really have time to start scheduling appointments to see different bands and my fiancé was insisting that most bands (that cost thousands of dollars) sounded like, “cheesy garage cover-bands” and I was fed up. I almost forgot I was planning a wedding since in my free time I had become a band consultant. After a few months and my fiancé saying, “That doesn’t sound like the original song” I realized maybe DJ’s were popular for a reason. I can look back and laugh because our DJ did a great job the night of and the dance floor was packed the entire night. Even before the dance floor “opened” people were up there dancing, he was awesome. And he just really wanted to make us happy. A good thing I learned, just because you don’t get the most talked about/recommended vendor doesn’t mean that you won’t get a fantastic one anyway. Trust your instincts; not getting a band was the right decision for us!

I am in the television industry so having the perfect videographer was important to me. I’m really happy with the results, but I have watched the video 5 times. I look at our beautiful wedding pictures around our apartment every day! They are truly works of art. It was the best investment we could have made in our wedding. Sometimes I got consumed with the wedding details—bands, linens, place cards, programs…the list could go on forever. At the end of the night the details are all gone and the pictures last forever. “

Ok – please don’t feel like you have to say how much you love your pictures in these stories, but I’m so glad you do!!!!!

Also, Katrina Hess, her make-up artist is running a spring makeover special right now! Now through the end of May you can get a consultation and application in her Newbury Street studio for $50! I’m tempted to do it myself! 🙂

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  • bridget

    The first image of John and Sarah is exactly how I picture them when I look back on their wedding day. Happy-go-lucky and downright giddy to have fallen in love and to be sharing it with their closest friends and family. Their marriage is everything I have always hoped my big brother would find in life, and I am so happy for them both. Plus – just look at them. They’re hot!ReplyCancel

  • alex

    i have to agree with bridget on the first photo. it just absolutely captures sarah and john, just as they are. in a way, i feel like the photo is a spot-on representation of what their marriage is: one full of laughter, love, and genuine happiness. And they just look fabulous together!ReplyCancel

  • Alle

    The wedding was so fun- as you can definitely see in the photos! Sarah looked amazing (as always) and John is a lucky lucky duck… 😉ReplyCancel

  • Bart

    First off, this was one of the best weddings I’ve ever been to. The music, the food, the company….I couldn’t dream up a better wedding day. Sarah was shining in her dress; John was so handsome.

    My favorite picture is the family around the kitchen counter- It really shows the true Harris family love.

    My favorite moment at this wedding was when John turned to me and said, “Hey, Procacci, did I ever tell you that I love your last name?!?!” Haha- oh John.ReplyCancel

  • Karen

    By far, this was one of the best and most organized weddings that I have attended. The entire day was seamless from beginning to end. Wishing only the best for both of you!ReplyCancel

  • Gina

    The wedding was wonderful – definitley a family affair and a lot of fun. The location was beautiful – second OF COURSE to how beautiful Sarah looked!! The pictures were also great! They do look like art and absolutely capture all the love that the day was filled with!

    We miss you guys & love you very much!!! xoxoxoxoxoReplyCancel

  • zoe

    Sarah and John both look so beautiful. They are a perfect match and it seems as though the wedding day was perfect as well. Way to stick to your guns about the chocolate cake!ReplyCancel

  • Julia

    These photos are great! They really capture all the fun of that day, it was absolutely wonderful! I couldn’t have imagined a better wedding for my big brother, nor a better sister in law!ReplyCancel

  • michael

    you guys look great. seems like the party was tons of fun.ReplyCancel

  • caito13

    I was part of the “cake tasting” and was so excited that Sarah and John went with the chocolate icing and (my favorite) mint chocolate chip for a layer! Sarah has always been one to start trends, so I am not surprised that chocolate icing is now “in”!

    These photos are just a few examples of what a great time the wedding was, and the wonderful marriage that Sarah and John share!!ReplyCancel

  • MARICHELLE

    Love the wedding cake! Sarah, you really should write a How-To or at least publish your “favorites”. Totally agree with you on the whole veil thing – I actually borrowed one from a friend.ReplyCancel

  • Jessica

    So orgranized Sarah! I’m going to take some pointers from you! Still debating whether to get a videography or just go with the stills….decisions, decisions. You’re pictures look great! Very telling of your special day.ReplyCancel

  • Julia

    As I’ve said before, you guys just look so gorgeous and happy! I love hearing the advice; my fiance is set on a DJ instead of a band and I was wavering, but sounds like it’s the right way to go! (In the TV biz too, but for some reason I don’t imagine watching the video that much either 😉ReplyCancel

  • Kat

    Look at that cake! Gorgeousness. I would feel bad eating it. Beautiful pictures Miss Sarah!ReplyCancel

  • David

    Wonderful pictures Sarah. I had a great time at the wedding and hope to see you guys soon!ReplyCancel

  • Kate

    You’re wedding was beautiful! I’ve had a lot of fun looking at the pictures Alex has shown me, they make me even more excited to be a wedding planner one day!!ReplyCancel

  • LZ

    Loved the photos from the wedding – so much so that I ordered some right away, and one sits atop our bar still! Different poses and candid shots not just of the bride and groom, but of everyone having a great time. Watching Sarah’s absolute joy and John’s beaming looks of love cast in her direction all day and night was an absolute delight. Congratulations again!ReplyCancel

  • kate

    Not just the wedding, the whole weekend was fantastic. All friends coming together in this beautiful place. classy and personal. It felt really special.ReplyCancel

  • Luis

    Sarah and John’s wedding was a blast!ReplyCancel

  • nehcole

    These pictures are so great…you can’t help but smile when you look at them! John & Sarah look to have had a very beautiful day.ReplyCancel

  • choad

    wow great pictures!~ReplyCancel

  • EllieSnd

    Congrats to John and Sarah!ReplyCancel

  • Carrie

    That first picture is beautiful! We had such a wonderful time at your wedding, and I agree that the chocolate cake was magic, as chocolate often is! Everything about your wedding weekend was magical.ReplyCancel

  • Roxanne

    mmmm… chocolate cake!ReplyCancel

  • simplycia83

    What beautiful photos! You both look so relaxed and happy on what can be such a hectic day. What a beautiful couple and wonderful memories!ReplyCancel

  • Felipe

    dude, love thisReplyCancel

  • kanchan

    Beautiful pics! Congrats John & Sarah!ReplyCancel

  • Dave

    Good times, good friends, good food, good booze, and GREAT PICTURES!!!!!ReplyCancel

  • Purim

    sooo precious. I really like the photos.ReplyCancel

  • Katie

    Absolutely stunning! So happy for you both!ReplyCancel

  • Mary

    I agree with what was said about the first photo. I believe it captured so much about Sarah and John’s relationship as well as the wedding itself. It was so much fun, and it all came and went so fast. I was very happy to be part of such a memorable event!ReplyCancel

  • Barbara

    Fantastic time, wonderfully spent with family and friends, gathered to witness True Love!!! We couldn’t be more proud!ReplyCancel

  • Jaclyn

    sarah! I love all your tips and advice for the wedding day! I have to agree about giving time for prep on the day, I was in my best friends wedding and some of the girls didnt leave enough time before and it was rush rush and no time to enjoy it all before we left for the wedding. I love the photo of the albums and play list its very creative.ReplyCancel

  • Veronica

    Your pictures are amazing, I can’t wait until my special day. To be totally in love and capturing that moment in a photograph is timeless. I enjoy coming to this page and sharing in your happiness, I can only wish you many many more happy years to come.ReplyCancel

  • Sue

    I love the first photo because it truly captures the pure and genuine love they have for themselves AND each other. They are so present in that particular moment and it shows. Sarah and John did not miss a beat when making all those wedding decisions. It was shear perfection!!! I am so glad that my Godson John found such a special person to spend the rest of his life with. My husband Bill and I had had a fabulous vacation filled with fun, love and laughter. We both wish them nothing but love, luck and happiness in thier future together.Love, Susie and BillReplyCancel

  • Cris

    All the photos are so beautiful!
    Congrats again! = )ReplyCancel

  • Geoffrey

    I had a great time basking in the light of the union of two souls. And wow! Those pictures really capture the beauty of the occasion. You know, the Beatles said, “all you need is love,” but I think you also need a great photographer with an eye for the moment to record the experience for posterity. Yeah!ReplyCancel

  • peter

    Beautiful couple, beautiful wedding. The photos are really nice. A very unique angle on traditional wedding photography, but with a tastefully conservative edge.ReplyCancel

  • Matt

    John, sorry I missed it. But the photos looks like Jesus Christ came down and blessed the wedding himself.ReplyCancel

  • Kim

    We were so happy to see your pictures since we weren’t able to make the wedding… Just think – Tyler will always be as old as how long you guys are married :o) I love how the pictures capture the candid the moments of the day and are taken in such a unique way. You guys look so happy and we are so happy for you!!!ReplyCancel

  • Dan

    The first picture is great. It totally captured the essence of who you two really are.ReplyCancel

  • Amanda

    Beautiful photos of what looks like a beautiful wedding! Love the unique cake!ReplyCancel

  • Dianne

    It was such a pleasure looking through all your photos….. I felt as if I’d been there. How wonderful to have captured so many precious once-in-a-lifetime moments. All the best to you for a lifetime of happiness!ReplyCancel

  • eorlins

    Sarah & John are the most beautiful couple ever!

    I loved the part about the M&Ms in the hotel room. I didn’t even know that part.

    Love you both.ReplyCancel

  • Amy

    The candid photos are fantastic. They do such a wonderful job of capturing both of your personalities. You are truly good friends and that comes through in the photos.

    Good luck with everything!!ReplyCancel

  • David

    The pictures capitivated the wonderful time with family and friends. It was a wonderful day.

    Love

    Mary EllenReplyCancel

  • jerris Cook

    Sarah and John great pictures.

    Love

    JerryReplyCancel

  • Arrol

    All the pictures of John and Sarah are great. They all show how special of day this was for the two of them.ReplyCancel

  • Meghan

    The pictures really capture how much fun they had. And the cake looks real yummy.ReplyCancel

  • Kate

    Great pictures! The wedding was such a blast, let’s do it again!ReplyCancel

  • Martina

    haven’t seen you in forever-looks like it was such a special day!! Good luck and congrats-those pics really capture how much you guys are in love.ReplyCancel

  • John

    This was such a wonderful day and the pictures turned out amazing.ReplyCancel

  • Meghann

    wow, what beautiful pictures. they remind me of when alex harris and I broke into a dance off when the song “total eclipse of the heart” came one. good times.ReplyCancel

  • Beltkiss

    Your cake looks delicious and very unique…Your pcitures are classic and elegant and you my dear look great…congratsReplyCancel

  • Brian

    perfect photos for a perfect wedding! Much love John and Sarah!ReplyCancel

  • Jason

    Sarah gives great career advice! Sounds like the wedding was a blast, also!ReplyCancel

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